Friday, September 26, 2008

A Greener Yid: The Shofar as Environmental Call to Action


I am a technophile, a first adopter, and a lover of all things “gadgety.” From my first Palm Pilot, to my current Blackberry, I love ‘em all.

Imagine my surprise, then, to read, in JTA (the Jewish Telegraphic Agency), that Judaism brought to the world the first wireless technology. And not only that; the Shofar, the article points out, is among the “greenest” technologies ever.

JTA, in "Seeing Green in the Shofar and its Call to Action," offers:

Is green the theme of the shofar this Rosh Hashanah season? In a year of sustainability and carbon footprints, high gas and hybrids, the shofar is the simplest, most eco-friendly method of reaching the Jewish community with a vital message.

The shofar, if you pause to think about it, is a rhapsody in green. Lightweight and easily transportable, it sports no moving parts -- the shofar blower, or ba’al tekiah’s, own mouth becomes the mouthpiece. Yet it's dependable enough to deliver the complex musical message required to begin a new Jewish year.

A totally natural product, its availability is a byproduct of an already ongoing ancient enterprise -- sheep herding.

Powered by one human, and empowered by a congregation, the shofar requires no batteries, power cord or transformer. When we hear it, we are the ones who become transformed.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Back to the Future...


In the moments before their b’nei mitzvah, long time Sinai congregant Laura Waisbren told her children: “There are just a few times in life you get to have your entire world assembled before you for a celebration.” At the whirlwind of Michael and Sophie’s becoming b’nei mitzvah yesterday begins to subside, I now see just how wise those words truly are.

On Sunday, my mother shared with me a synagogue bulletin article I had written just after I celebrated becoming bar mitzvah. Reading my own pre-adolescent words, I was struck by how eerily they captured sentiments I hold dear even today.

Yet, those early thoughts challenged my own sense of life-narrative. When people ask when I decided to become a rabbi, the story usually begins at sixteen, when I spent half a year in Israel as a high school exchange student. In light of this now uncovered article I wrote at thirteen, it may well be time to reexamine that assumption! At the risk of self-plagiarizing, permit me to share it with you:


“BETTER THAN CHICKEN SOUP - by David Cohen

Most people think they would probably enjoy the rabbi's job. The fact is that there is a lot more to being a rabbi than conducting services, socializing at the Oneg Shabbat, being a leader, and attending a variety of meetings. There is a lot more.

A few weeks ago Debra Fields (ed. The rabbi’s daughter) and I had the opportunity of observing one of the less joyous tasks of a Rabbi. The Junior Youth Group had made New Year's greetings for the hospital patients, and the two of us went with Rabbi Fields and Rabbi Rosenberg to distribute them.

When we arrived at Middlesex Hospital, I was scared. Not that anything was to go wrong, but I did not know what to expect. The first room we came to, I said to myself - "Well, here goes." We stepped in and the Rabbi introduced me and then himself. He told the patient that we were from Anshe Emeth (Synagogue) and that I was a representative of the Junior Youth Group. Suddenly, it was time for my big line. I said "Happy New Year" and that I hoped she was feeling better. She thanked me and we left. Gee, this was easier than I thought! Many of the patients were very appreciative of the time and effort that went into the greetings cards we handed out. One man was even too touched to speak. Another elderly woman said "they were more beautiful than a Rembrandt" and then she added "and I have seen a Rembrandt." The Rabbi later told me it was not the quality of the artwork that made her say that.

Throughout the trip I felt that I had never before known what the Rabbi does during the week. Many patients had said that the only person besides their families to visit them was their spiritual leader.

On leaving each room I realized how good it felt doing things for other people. Even at the end, however, I felt an uneasiness -going into someone's hospital room. At one point, for instance, we were in a man's room and I had said something and he just stared at me. The Rabbi sensed something was wrong and continued the conversation. What a lifesaver! I was about to collapse right on the spot.

I felt very good about the whole trip after it was over. I was very proud of myself and the projected effort made by our Temple to perform Mitzvoth.

While many of the things we do are important, nothing compares to getting out to accommodate the needy. I think all the members of our Youth Group are worth their weight in Jerusalem stone when they work to make something for the needy or disabled. Not only that, but their cards were the best medical treatment since chicken soup!

About a week later, I unexpectedly had the opportunity to be on the receiving end of this same mitzvah. Lady luck had struck again, and guess who became a patient in the hospital - Me! How the tables have turned. I could now understand the feeling of being alone in a hospital, although not for long. Like the nice guy the rabbi is, he found out and came right over to visit me. Nevertheless, while everyone is very nice, a patient can't help being a little scared, for it can pretty lonely, especially at three in the morning. I was lucky, for during the day I had lots of visitors. Even though my medicines made me tired, I was still very happy to have them, for I remembered that many of the elderly had no visitors at all and were really lonely.

I hope the Junior Youth Group will be thoughtful enough to deliver some of their "Rembrandts" again. They are cheaper than medicine, and make the patients feel so good!

(Synagogue Bulletin editor's note: 13 year-old David Cohen lives in East Brunswick, and has just celebrated his Bar Mitzvah. We predict he will not only be a great Rembrandt, but a Sholem Aleichem as well!). “

Well, history reveals that the Rembrandt prediction was way off base, but I like still tell stories, some even by Yiddish author Sholem Aleichem.

Should my seventh grade essay inspire you to consider doing a mitzvah, our Chesed Committee arranges for congregants to visit other homebound congregants. Please consider doing the mitzvah of “Bikur Cholim”, which though it’s often translated as “Visiting the Sick”, it also means spending time with those who are lonely and could use some human companionship. It would make a tremendous difference for someone in our community.

Julie joins me in hoping that 5759 is a wonderful year for you and yours,

Rabbi David B. Cohen

( David B. Cohen, age eleven, won a set of World Book encyclopedias, from the syndicated columnist, "Ask Andy.")

Saturday, August 9, 2008



As many of you know, I returned last night from 10 days in Downeast, Maine, Mt. Desert Island, Acadia National Park, etc. It’s a place so beautiful my dad was moved to say, on our first visit 30 years ago: “Moses must have made a wrong turn somewhere in the desert!”

Alas, the natural beauty of fir trees, salt air, and craggy, rocky mountains is not always accompanied by sunny weather. There’s always some misty days. This year there were many, most of our vacation, in fact. Everyone was talking about global warming and its affects, given the unusual nature of the storms with lightning and thunder and torrential downpours, sort of what we had here a few weeks ago.

While out for a walk one day – reminded of a similarly cloudy stormy day in the January of 1996. I was in Jordan on top of Mt. Nebo, reading the last words of the last of the five books of Moses – Devarim, that describe the view he had the day before he died. As consolation for not getting to go into the land, God showed him the land from the finger of the Galilee in the north, to the Negev desert in the south, from the great sea, the Mediterranean, to the mountains on which he stood. It was breathtaking and quite moving, to, as the spiritual puts it: stand on the rock where Moses stood.

We begin this Shabbat the yearly reading of Devarim, or, as its known in Greek and English,
Deuteronomy. The name comes from two greek words, Deutero, which means “second” and “nomos”, which means law. Hence, Deuteronomy is the second telling of what happened during the forty years in the desert, as remembered by Moses. In a way, it’s Moses’s farewell speech, given not to those he left Egypt with but to their children who are about to cross the Jordan into the promised land.

Interestingly, when Moses tells them of what their parents had done for forty years in the desert, Moses doesn’t say what THEY did, but says: what YOU did. He drums into the second generation the experience of the first, making it their own, hoping that they will assimilate it and thus be able to avoid the pitfalls and mistakes made by their parents. More radically still, the message is pitched even to us living in the twenty first century; we are the “you” Moses included that day. We too stand at a juncture, at the banks of a river whose far shore holds incalculable challenges and blessings, if we will only be wise enough to discern which is which.

At this time of the year, the link between Moses’s last speech and who each of us is here today finds full expression in the cycle of ten Haftarah readings preceding the High Holy Days. This Shabbat is the last of three Shabbatot preceding the ninth day of Av, tisha b’av, the day we recall the destruction of the first and second temple. These three weeks of Torah and Haftarot preceding the ninth of Av are filled with words of reproof, as Moses warns and condemns the Israelites, and the prophets follow suit. After tisha ‘ b’av, however, the tone changes entirely. Verses of consolation, Nechemta, flow to the people, to soothe them and remind them that no matter how bad things had gotten, better time would soon be at hand.

This week’s Haftarah is taken from the Book of Isaiah, and it’s theme is so powerful the entire Shabbat is named in its honor. Shabbat Hazon, the Sabbath of vision.

And what is the vision we speak of? To answer, let’s transport ourselves back two hundred years ago, to the back of the classroom of Rabbi Levi Yitzhak of Berdichev, who lived in late eighteenth century Eastern Europe. He begins his lecture asserting that Shabbat Hazon is so named because on this Shabbat, the Shabbat immediately preceding Tisha B’Av, every Jewish person is afforded a vision of the third Temple, rebuilt to the glory of its predecessors.

Permit me to share a parable, says the rabbi, in order to illustrate what I mean.

Once, there was a king who had a garment made for his son. When the son received the garment he wore it out in no time, climbing, running, jumping and sliding in the dirt in the stables. The King preceded to make his son a second garment, but this one, too, soon was soiled and unusable. The King made a third garment, but this one he kept and didn’t give to his son. He held it up and said: when you are ready, you will receive the garment.

Reb Levi Yitzhak finished the story, inhaled briskly, and asked: what do I mean by this story?

A student in the front of the study hall quickly rose to his feet. Clearly, he said, the garments stand for the destroyed temples. And the third withheld garment for the third yet to be rebuilt temple you say we can have a vision of today. But I have a question for you: why does the parable use a garment as a metaphor for the Temple? Shouldn’t it have been something else? I mean, a garment doesn’t last forever; it frays and over time falls apart. The Temple, but for our forebears’ backsliding, would have lasted forever. Why not compare the Temple to an object made of metal or stone, something enduring and indestructible?


Reb Levi Yitzhak waited a few moments and looked out to the students. Does anyone have a response? It’s a reasonable question. Why is the parable about a gift of a garment rather than of metal or stone?

Toward the back of the room, a student lifted his hand slowly. “Yes, it’s true that a garment is transient, much moreso than a building. But the point may not be about the building as a structure, but about the Temple as something more.

In other words, think about a garment. Little by little, it takes on the character of the person who wears it. The problem with the king’s son was that he didn’t realize how his behavior would ruin the garment and make it entirely ineffective. So too the Israelites didn’t realize that their behavior would sully the Holy temple, making it unfit as a place to honor God. Only once the people saw the connection between their behavior and the temple would God be willing to rebuild a third temple.

…A Sabbath parable in the shadow of Tisha b’Av, the day we remember our cultures most articulate expression of its love for God, the Temples, and how our own misdeeds brought them to dust. A message for us corporately to be sure, but also for us as individual, solitary human beings who yearn for the capacity to change ourselves to more fully embody who we want to be and should be. As the hope of a rebuilt temple endures among some of our people, may the new year enable us to realize the promise each of us holds for repentance, redemption and growth.

Shabbat Shalom.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Dear Bloggees:
This op-ed was written last March, but still speaks powerfully to the situation in Gaza. As Syria uses Iranian money to buy the most sophisticated Russian arms, and Iran stands ready to, at the very least, back its proxies in the region, Hezb'Allah and Hamas, Yoffie's comments' relevance only increases.
David Cohen -


Preparing U.S. Jews For Assault On Gaza

Reform leader argues that Israel will soon be forced to drop its ‘restraint’ policy.


by Eric H. Yoffie
Special To The Jewish Week

A few weeks ago, I sat with a Jewish delegation that met with some important Protestant leaders here in the United States. The conversation quickly turned to events in Gaza. In a perfunctory sentence or two, our Protestant colleagues said that of course they condemned the rocket fire directed at Israeli cities, but in their view the real problem was the suffering of the Palestinian population in Gaza and the wildly disproportionate nature of Israel’s response to Palestinians attacks.

Deeply pained and angry, I replied: You are absolutely right. Israel’s response has been wildly disproportionate because it has been far more restrained than what would be expected from any other civilized, democratic government.

Did they understand that since 2001, more than 7,000 rockets had been fired from Gaza at civilian targets in Israel? Did they realize that a “proportionate” response would involve 7,000 Israeli rockets fired at civilians in Gaza? Did they appreciate that the relatively small number of civilian casualties in Israel resulted not from the humanitarian intentions of Hamas but from the crudeness of their weapons, and that those weapons were now improving? Did they know that the traumatized children of Sderot lived in constant fear? On what basis, I asked, did they expect Israel to tolerate these attacks?

And what would their congregants be saying if their churches in Michigan had been subjected to seven years of hostile fire from across the Canadian border? Would church leaders be calling for “restraint” from the American government in these circumstances? And did they really expect that any American president would show such restraint?

What followed, of course, was the suggestion that the “occupation” was responsible for the rocket fire. I replied: Excuse me, but Prime Minister Sharon pulled out of every inch of Gaza in 2005, and his successor was elected on a platform calling for unilateral withdrawal from most of the remaining territories. And yet there has not been a single day of quiet following that withdrawal. Indeed, rocket strikes significantly increased after it was completed.

Yes, I assured them, I shared their concern for Palestinian suffering in Gaza. But the simple fact is that if terror and rocket fire were to come to an end in Gaza, the suffering of her people would end as well.

There was nothing surprising in these exchanges, but they reminded me of how much American Jews have yet to do to educate their fellow citizens about Israel’s current plight.

And there is some urgency in this task because I have little doubt that Israel’s restraint will soon come to an end.

During my recent visit to Jerusalem, I met with the prime minister and more than a dozen Knesset members from across the political spectrum. Virtually all of Israel’s political leaders are reluctant to escalate the military conflict with Hamas; they fear the uncertain results of such an escalation, as well as heavy casualties on both sides. Nonetheless, from most of those to whom I spoke, what I heard was that there would soon be no alternative to a more aggressive military posture.

The reason for this is simply that the attacks on Sderot threaten Israel’s very existence.

Once again, most of the world has found a way to take an utterly intolerable situation — nearly daily attacks on Israeli civilian centers — and turn it into something that is both tolerated and even routine. And as the accuracy of the rockets increases along with the Iranian role in supplying Hamas forces, the circle of cities under attack has begun to expand.

It is only a matter of time before Hamas cells in the West Bank begin firing rockets as well.

The result is that it is now possible to imagine a scenario under which Israel, without ever losing a war, would cease to be a viable state.

As a result, there is a strong likelihood that in the months ahead, Israel will move against Hamas forces in Gaza. With or without an invasion, her army will likely target all of Hamas’ military installations, institutions and leaders. Since for years Hamas fighters have hidden themselves in civilian centers such as schools and hospitals, Palestinian civilian casualties are certain to grow. But Israel will almost surely decide that it can no longer protect Palestinian civilians at the cost of sacrificing the well being of her own.

This is not a welcome scenario. It would be preferable by far if international diplomacy could arrange a ceasefire that would end the rocket fire without allowing Hamas to build up her forces for future attacks. But chances for such a diplomatic resolution are small, and Israel must prepare for the worst.

Israel must also continue to support American diplomatic efforts to advance what is left of the peace process. President Bush hopes for a diplomatic breakthrough this calendar year, and while he is unlikely to succeed, he has earned, by word and deed, the trust of Israel and the American Jewish community. Surely, as he pursues this diplomatic course, he is entitled to the goodwill and cooperation of Israel’s government.

In that regard, we should keep in mind that an Israeli attack on Gaza is certain to unleash a barrage of international criticism. American support will be essential if Israel’s military is to have the time it needs to complete its mission. For that reason, current tension between Israel and the American government over Israel’s settlement policy is a potential disaster.

An unpopular president who is being asked to take the heat for support of an unpopular Israeli military operation is entitled to some consideration from Israel’s leaders. Whatever the differences, Israel needs to get its settlement policies in line with American expectations and to do so now.

With all this said, the responsibilities of American Jews are clear. A centrist Israeli government has done everything within its power to escape a military confrontation.

Nonetheless, confronted by challenges to its sovereignty, by expanding attacks on its civilian population, and by the unrelenting hatred of an anti-Semitic, religiously fanatic regime, it is moving toward the military action in Gaza that it had desperately hoped to avoid.

Let us remember, then, that the Jewish state came into being for just such a time as this, when Jewish lives are in danger and no one but a Jewish army will come to their rescue. And let us remember too that our task now is to support Israel in her time of need, to make her case to our fellow citizens, and to do all that we can to rally the Jewish people and good people everywhere to her side.

Rabbi Yoffie is president of the Union for Reform Judaism.

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Beliefnet's "Top 10 Spiritual Excercises"

A Spiritual practice is like any other discipline. It takes dedication, hard work, and repetition.

Here is number one! Let us know if ou try to adopt any of these.



1.) I ________, therefore I am.

French philosopher Rene Descartes wrote, "I think, therefore I am." But, what if thinking isn't the reason for your existence?

What word or phrase might you substitute for "I think"?

Here are a few ideas:

* I complain, therefore I am.
* I have stuff, therefore I am.
* I improve on things, therefore I am.
* My parents procreated, therefore I am.
* I create, therefore I am.
* God loves me, therefore I am.

Every version gives a very different perspective on life. Meditate on what you would put in the blank and see what you discover.


2. Parkinson's Law (named after 20th Century British historian Cyril Northcote Parkinson) states, "work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion." That's just the way it is.

Paradoxically for adults, it takes work and planning in order to successfully rest. Can you spend five minutes today not doing? How about 10 minutes? Or a half hour?

Wednesday, March 26, 2008


Thinking About Gaza
By Eric H. Yoffie


A few weeks ago, I sat with a Jewish delegation that met with some important Protestant leaders here in the United States. The conversation quickly turned to events in Gaza. In a perfunctory sentence or two, our Protestant colleagues said that of course they condemned the rocket fire directed at Israeli cities, but in their view the real problem was the suffering of the Palestinian population in Gaza and the wildly disproportionate nature of Israel’s response to Palestinians attacks.

Deeply pained and angry, what I said was this: You are absolutely right. Israel’s response has been wildly disproportionate because it has been far more restrained than what would be expected from any other civilized, democratic government.

Did they understand that since 2001, more than 7000 rockets had been fired from Gaza at civilian targets in Israel? Did they realize that a “proportionate” response would involve 7000 Israeli rockets fired at civilians in Gaza? Did they appreciate that the relatively small number of civilian casualties in Israel resulted not from the humanitarian intentions of Hamas but from the crudeness of their weapons, and that those weapons were now improving? Did they know that the traumatized children of Sderot lived in constant fear? On what basis, I asked, did they expect Israel to tolerate these attacks? And what would their congregants be saying if their churches in Michigan had been subjected to 7 years of hostile fire from across the Canadian border? Would church leaders be calling for “restraint” from the American government in these circumstances? And did they really expect that any American president would show such restraint?

What followed, of course, was the suggestion that the “occupation” was responsible for the rocket fire. I replied: Excuse me, but Prime Minister Sharon pulled out of every inch of Gaza in 2005, and his successor was elected on a platform calling for unilateral withdrawal from most of the remaining territories. And yet there has not been a single day of quiet following that withdrawal. Indeed, rocket strikes significantly increased after it was completed.

Yes, I assured them, I shared their concern for Palestinian suffering in Gaza. But the simple fact is that if terror and rocket fire were to come to an end in Gaza, the suffering of her people would end as well.

There was nothing surprising in these exchanges, but they reminded me of how much North American Jews have yet to do to educate their fellow citizens about Israel’s current plight. And there is some urgency in this task because I have little doubt that Israel’s restraint will soon come to end.

During my recent visit to Jerusalem, I met with Israel’s Prime Minister and more than a dozen Knesset members from across the political spectrum. Virtually all of Israel’s political leaders are reluctant to escalate the military conflict with Hamas; they fear the uncertain results of such an escalation, as well as heavy casualties on both sides. Nonetheless, from most of those to whom I spoke, what I heard was that there would soon be no alternative to a more aggressive military posture.

The reason for this is simply that the attacks on Sderot threaten Israel’s very existence. Once again, most of the world has found a way to take an utterly intolerable situation – nearly daily attacks on Israeli civilian centers – and turn it into something that is both tolerated and even routine. And as the accuracy of the rockets increases along with the Iranian role in supplying Hamas forces, the circle of cities under attack has begun to expand. It is only a matter of time before Hamas cells in the West Bank begin firing rockets as well. The result is that it is now possible to imagine a scenario under which Israel would cease to be a viable state without ever losing a war.

As a result, there is a strong likelihood that in the months ahead, Israel will move against Hamas forces in Gaza. With or without an invasion, her army will likely target all of Hamas’ military installations, institutions and leaders. Since for years Hamas fighters have hidden themselves in civilian centers such as schools and hospitals, Palestinian civilian casualties are certain to grow. But Israel will almost surely decide that it can no longer protect Palestinian civilians at the cost of sacrificing the wellbeing of her own.

This is not a welcome scenario. It would be preferable by far if international diplomacy could arrange a ceasefire that would end the rocket fire without allowing Hamas to build up her forces for future attacks. But chances for such a diplomatic resolution are small, and Israel must prepare for the worst.

Of course, if war does come, Israel will not get a free pass. Targeted military operations that tragically result in civilian deaths are one thing. But indiscriminate artillery barrages in civilian areas – which some Israeli ministers have called for – are another matter. Israel has always resisted pressure to resort to such tactics, and it must continue to do so now.

And Israel must also continue to support American diplomatic efforts to advance what is left of the peace process. President Bush hopes for a diplomatic breakthrough this calendar year, and while he is unlikely to succeed, when it comes to matters of the Jewish state he has earned, by word and deed, the trust of Israel and the North American Jewish community. Surely, as he pursues this diplomatic course, he is entitled to the goodwill and cooperation of Israel’s government.

In that regard, we should keep in mind that an Israeli attack on Gaza is certain to unleash a barrage of international criticism. American support will be essential if Israel’s military is to have the time it needs to complete its mission. For that reason, current tension between Israel and the American government over Israel’s settlement policy is a potential disaster. An unpopular President who is being asked to take the heat for support of an unpopular Israeli military operation is entitled to some consideration from Israel’s leaders. Whatever the differences, Israel needs to get its settlement policies in line with American expectations and to do so now.

With all this said, the responsibilities of North American Jews are clear. A centrist Israeli government has done everything within its power to escape a military confrontation. Nonetheless, confronted by challenges to its sovereignty, by expanding attacks on its civilian population, and by the unrelenting hatred of an anti-Semitic, religiously fanatic regime, it is moving toward the military action in Gaza that it had desperately hoped to avoid. Let us remember, then, that the Jewish state came into being for just such a time as this, when Jewish lives are in danger and no one but a Jewish army will come to their rescue. And let us remember too that our task now is to support Israel in her time of need, to make her case to our fellow citizens, and to do all that we can to rally the Jewish people and good people everywhere to her side.

Rabbi Yoffie is President of the Union for Reform Judaism.

Friday, March 7, 2008

THE SHAME OF IT ALL

Rabbi Daniel Gordis
March 7, 2008
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There were days, and they were not that long ago, when Zionism was about something different. Days when Zionists could articulate what the purpose of Jewish Statehood was, days when Israelis understood that having a state was about changing the existential condition of the Jew. Not anymore.

Hayyim Nachman Bialik, writing in 1905 shortly after the slaughter in Kishinev, understood that the very essence of Jewish existence had to change. What else could he possibly have been saying in his epic poem, "The City of Slaughter" (scroll down to the two paragraphs that begin with the lines "Descend then, to the cellars of the town"), when he describes the mass rape scene in which Jewish women are helpless victims and Jewish men are powerless to intervene? In fact, for Bialik, the villains of the scene are not the Cossacks; rape and murder are simply what Cossacks do. The problem with what happened in Kishinev, Bialik intimates with his bitter irony, rests with the Jewish men. It's bad enough that they were too weak to intervene, to defend their wives, their sisters, their mothers and their daughters, though that is clearly lamentable. But worse than that, they were too frightened to even try. And even worse than that, Bialik says, is that when the slaughter and the butchery were over, these men looked down at the broken bodies of the women that they had supposedly once loved, and instead of holding them, instead of telling them that they still loved them, instead of assuring them that they would take care of them no matter what, they gazed at these violated, half-dead women, and saw a halakhic question. "Is my wife," the Kohanim in Bialik's poem want to know, "still permitted to me?"

It makes no difference whether or not anyone in Kishinev really asked that question, or thought to. Bialik is not a journalist in this poem. He's a diagnostician, describing the human (or no longer human) condition of the Jew. And what he wants us to know is that what is wrong with the Jews is that they have come to accept their victimization as part of nature. They're no longer shocked by what is done to them, no longer infuriated by their own powerlessness. These Jewish men, their humanity too eroded by years of religious escapism and yeshiva study for them to see the broken women they should have loved as anything other than halakhic questions, aren't people anymore. Real people, Bialik suggests, simply don't stand by and watch their family members get raped and slaughtered and do nothing about it. Even if you'll get killed in the process, you try to defend the people you love. When you no longer defend your family, he intimates, you're not human, you're sick. The Jews are sick, he says, their souls eroded by passivity, by weakness, by fear. And the cure, we know not from this poem but from much of what he writes, is a Jewish homeland.

Just over forty years later, with much water under the bridge and six million Jewish men, women and children having been ushered heavenward through smokestacks across Eastern Europe while the world either conspired to assist in the murder or simply watched and pretended to be aghast, the State of Israel was about to be born. And Natan Alterman, who in some ways had replaced Bialik as the poet laureate of the Zionist movement, wanted Jews to understand what was unfolding. It wasn't just a country that they were getting; it was purpose, salvation. The Jews would not simply have a State; the Jews would be transformed.
And thus, in "The Silver Platter" (a translation one can quibble with, but the best that I've found on the web), when the whole nation assembles to receive the "unique miracle", they are assembled not at Sinai, but in their homeland. And they are awaiting not Torah, but Statehood. Independence, not religion, is what will save the Jews, Alterman is effectively saying. It's a step beyond Bialik. In Bialik's poem, the Jew in Europe is dying, but there's no clear solution. Forty years later, after the UN had voted on the Partition Plan and Israel was about to be created, Alterman believed that the solution was at hand.

Alterman clearly shares Bialik's disdain for what they both see as Judaism's religiously induced passivity. In his poem, as the people awaits its transformative moment, State replaces Torah. And if you look carefully, and compare the biblical account of the giving of the Torah at Sinai (especially Exodus 19), you'll see other differences. In the Biblical account, Moses tells the men not to approach a woman (verse 15), but here, the boy and the girl are inseparable, and virtually indistinguishable. In the Torah, the Israelites are commanded to wash their clothes (verse 10); but in the poem, the boy and the girls are caked with dirt, and they do not wash. Saving the Jews, Alterman wants to suggest, requires that you get dirty. "You prefer to stay clean?" he seems to say - "fine, but prepare to be dead." We'll come back to that.

For Alterman, like Bialik, like many of the Zionists of their day, Zionism was about changing the condition of the Jew, by changing the nature of the Jew. And for them, the nature of the Jew would be changed by moving away from the religious tradition that made us weak, that offered us a "spiritual refuge" in which we could pretend that things were not as they are, that was an opiate guaranteed to prevent the Jews' confronting the utter intolerability of their condition.

Bialik and Alterman were, of course, quite right. And dead wrong. Bialik was right that the condition of the Jew in Europe was untenable (though as he died in 1934, he never got to know exactly how right he was), and Alterman was right that new boys and new girls, caked in dirt and blood, would help redeem what was left of the Jewish people. But they were sadly wrong about the advisability of leaving Jewish religious discourse in the dust, for they failed to predict how quickly Israelis - bereft of any substantive Jewish discourse - would find themselves unable to say, or to remember, why they needed this State in the first place.

When you've lost the sense that Jewish statehood is about changing the condition of the Jew, and when you can no longer recall that independence was designed (inter alia) to end the era of hunting seasons in which the Jews are the ducks, just because they're Jews, when any semblance of a Jewish conversation is thoroughly absent from your worldview, it's hard to say much about why the Jews need a State. It's hard to say why the high cost of living here (and I don't mean financial) is worth it. How do you explain to your friends, and to yourself, why you should drive your eighteen year old son to the base where he'll be inducted, and hope and pray for three long years (or more) that he'll be OK, if you have no idea why a Jewish State matters?

When you can't articulate why you need this State, you fret. You worry mostly about what the world thinks of you, because more than anything else, you simply want to be "normal," indistinguishable, just like everyone else. So, just like the "men" in Bialik's poem, you don't allow yourself to be horrified by the fact that almost 8,000 rockets have been fired at Sederot, that life there has been transformed into hell. You don't allow yourself to remember that for years, yes seven years, kids (and old kids, sometimes in their teens) have been sleeping in their parents' rooms, making any kind of normal family life utterly impossible, elementary school kids have been wetting their beds, half the businesses are vacated, more than half the town is empty, the economy doesn't exist and everyone is scared to death, all the time.

You don't allow yourself to focus on the fact that this is exactly what Zionism was supposed to prevent. You get so used to it that you don't see that Jews sitting like ducks, simply waiting to be hit by homemade missiles while the region's most powerful army sits on the side and polishes its boots, is a bastardization of what Zionism was supposed to be.

When you can't say anything anymore about why the Jews need a state, about what Statehood was supposed to do to the condition of the Jew, you don't allow yourself to stare reality squarely in the face and to wonder what will happen when they get Grads, and then Katyushas, and hit Ashkelon and then Ashdod - until they start. And then, when they do (which they did, this week), you tell yourself that it's "not so bad." After all, in yesterday's attacks on Sederot, "only" one woman was killed. "Only" one house (not her house, but a different one) was burnt to the ground. And in the roadside bombing of an army patrol, which isn't even on the news anymore, because last night got a lot worse, they "only" killed one soldier, and "only" one soldier was in extremely critical condition. "Only" a few families forever destroyed - we're going to get worked up about that?

When a country's leadership can't express a single coherent thought about why the Jews need a State, when its Prime Minister can articulate no agenda for the Jewish State beyond the hope that it will be "a fun place to live" (and look who gleefully cites that interview), you know we're bankrupt. You're bankrupt because Bialik and Alterman were too successful. They were part of a movement that so utterly disconnected the Jews from the discourse that had nurtured them for centuries that now, aside from being a marginally Hebrew-speaking version of some benign and characterless country, we can't remember why we wanted this State to begin with. So we don't defend it, because we don't want to hurt their civilians (even though they openly target ours). We don't want to earn the world's opprobrium, because our Prime Minister loves being welcomed in foreign capitals. We don't defend ourselves because we're no longer sure that it's really worth the casualties on our side that preventing these attacks on our sovereignty would require.

So we allow ourselves to grow comfortable being sitting ducks, and find ourselves exactly where we were a century ago. Kishinev morphs into Sederot, and very few people see the irony, or the utter shame, and shamefulness, of what's transpiring here.

Almost as if he foresaw the stalemate that now has us in its grips, Alterman writes in his poem that the boy and the girl are dirty, caked with the dirt of the fields and the fire-line. Unlike the Torah, which suggests that preparation for the revelation requires that everyone wash their garments, Alterman suggests that if the Jews insist on being clean, or insist on purity, there's no hope. It's a dirty world we live in, he understands, and in this world, we have to decide how badly we want to stay alive.

But we haven't decided that we want to stay alive. We don't want Ban Ki-Moon to chastise us. We want George Bush to love us. We don't want the BBC or CNN to broadcast pictures of Palestinian children wounded or killed by Jewish soldiers. We don't want more protests like we had this week, with Israeli Arabs rioting in opposition to the minor incursion into Gaza and voicing their support for Hamas. It's all just too complicated and unpleasant; we'd much rather pretend that we live in America, that we can ignore the dormant volcano of Israel's Arabs, too.

So we sit. And civilians keep getting targeted, and keep dying. And soldiers die. And Israeli towns become ghost towns. But George Bush most supports us, so we feel better. And the charade with Abu Mazen permits us to continue hallucinating about the possibility of peace, to pretend that the Palestinians aren't simply an utterly failed people that will never make peace in our lifetimes or those of our children, so we feel even better.

Bialik would recognize us. And he would weep.

And then, at the end of the day, you're sitting in a friend's living room, a few dozen people gathered together to congratulate him on a new book contract. Everyone's happy for him. Everyone's forgotten the funerals (of the woman from Sederot, of the soldier who was killed at Kissufim, and God forbid, of the soldier whose condition wasn't terribly clear) that will soon take place. Everyone's put out of their minds the mindless abdication of sovereignty unfolding in front of our very eyes. Everyone's pretending that we live in a normal country, and that Zionism's not failing even as we prepare for the sixtieth anniversary of independence.

So he's speaking modestly about what the book is about, why he's excited about writing it, who's publishing it. There's wine, and food, and good humor all around. And then someone's phone rings, and then someone else's. And before you know it, before your friend has even had five minutes to say anything about his book, all of the Blackberry's are out, and all the cell phones are being used, because the news has reached us - it's starting again. There's been an attack at a yeshiva at the entrance to the city. We know the drill, the invariable climb in the numbers. At first, it's one dead, scores wounded. Then it's seven dead. Then eight, and lots of wounded. Some of them might die, too.

In the morning, the papers report the attack, but there's not a single mention of a response, or even a contemplated response. Of course one will come, but not yet. It will have to get worse first, because a few people killed in Sederot, and a couple of soldiers, and even eight kids from a yeshiva - well, it's sad, but just for that we're actually going to start a war?

No, probably not, at least not yet. Because to go to war (or more accurately, to respond to the war that's been unleashed against you) to defend your citizens, you'd have to be able to articulate why this country still makes any difference. You've have to be able to say something about why it was created in the first place. You'd have to have a sense of Jewish history. You'd have to have a vision for the Jews, an agenda for your country. You'd have to be able to see yourself as part of a several thousand year old conversation. You'd have to have some courage. And yes, you'd ­have to love your people more than you love your office.

There were days when this land was filled with that. There were days when we remembered, and we knew. And we fought. And even if we died in the process, we figured it was worth it, because life here was about something, for something. And so was dying here.

But those days are gone. Our Prime Minister doesn't want to defend Sederot. Or Ashkelon. He doesn't want to tell Bush that the charade with Abu Mazen is bound to explode, and that when it does, more of us will die. He just wants a country that's "fun to live in."

Well, he's a lucky guy. Because tonight, the month of Adar begins. And the Talmud tells us (see the very last words of the page) that "when Adar begins, we increase our joy." So let's be happy. Let's have some fun. Why not? It's not as if our enemies have actually won. Not yet, at least.

It almost makes you grateful that Bialik's not around to see what's happened.